Monday, 26 February 2007
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Enlargo Development Cream
At the back of last year Five showed a series of documentaries on sex called A Girl's Guide to 21st Century Sex. It covered a range of sex topics from STDs to sexual positions, sexual fantasies, and other topics. One of them was penis enlargement methods, and that's what this post is about.
They took 3 volunteers to test 3 different methods over 2 months. One was some sort of stretching device, another a pump and the third a development cream called "Enlargo Development Cream". They measured the guys with their members erect before and after and compared. The outcome was that the guys using the pump and the cream got an extra inch, quite impressive!
The cream was £6 so I thought, I could give it a try, after all it's not like a lot of money for the results they promised... So I bought it, which wasn't easy since most websites had run out of it on the back of the programme. Once I received it, I started my own trial. You're supposed to apply the pink cream twice a day and wait for the two months to see the results.
Well, I am sure you're eager awaiting for the outcome... I can say it did not work. Surprised? Not at all, if something like that worked I am sure they'd sell it in supermarkets! The only effect is that your dick will not shrink as much as it would normally, but erect, there is absolutely no difference.
So Five doesn't have a great reputation for their accuracy and their in-depth content, no wonder why, making a claim like that should probably checked a bit more, unless someone in the programme happens to sell it... your guess is as good as mine.
They took 3 volunteers to test 3 different methods over 2 months. One was some sort of stretching device, another a pump and the third a development cream called "Enlargo Development Cream". They measured the guys with their members erect before and after and compared. The outcome was that the guys using the pump and the cream got an extra inch, quite impressive!
The cream was £6 so I thought, I could give it a try, after all it's not like a lot of money for the results they promised... So I bought it, which wasn't easy since most websites had run out of it on the back of the programme. Once I received it, I started my own trial. You're supposed to apply the pink cream twice a day and wait for the two months to see the results.Well, I am sure you're eager awaiting for the outcome... I can say it did not work. Surprised? Not at all, if something like that worked I am sure they'd sell it in supermarkets! The only effect is that your dick will not shrink as much as it would normally, but erect, there is absolutely no difference.
So Five doesn't have a great reputation for their accuracy and their in-depth content, no wonder why, making a claim like that should probably checked a bit more, unless someone in the programme happens to sell it... your guess is as good as mine.
Saturday, 10 February 2007
Fetish
I have two main fetishes, one is underwear (which explains why my drawers are so full of it), and the second is BDSM and in particular bondage. If you're wondering what BDSM stands for, here it is:
I'm not much into S&M although a bit of if as part of a wider scene would be fine. It's bondage and submission that really turn me on.
Personally I prefer "bottoming" although I'm flexible. Don't think I'm some sort of hardcore player, I've only had some vanilla experiences with my ex-partner but I've always been interested in experiencing more of it (which is reflected in my collection of pictures/films).
There is something extremely arousing in completely submitting to someone else for sexual pleasure, especially if you're completely bound/restraint and can't really do anything about it.
There are plenty of people out there that like a bit of it to spice things up, some flurry handcuffs, a bit of role-play... but that's all very vanilla. What happens when you cross that line and really give yourself up? What when you give up your own sexual pleasure (which your master my still provide) but you make your own depend on someone else's, becoming an instrument for someone else's enjoyment and completely giving up yours.
I don't really know what attracts me to all of this and how far I would go during a proper session, but I'm certain of one thing , I wouldn't mind testing my boundaries!
- Bondage & discipline (B&D)
- Domination & submission (D&S)
- Sadism and masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M)
I'm not much into S&M although a bit of if as part of a wider scene would be fine. It's bondage and submission that really turn me on.
Personally I prefer "bottoming" although I'm flexible. Don't think I'm some sort of hardcore player, I've only had some vanilla experiences with my ex-partner but I've always been interested in experiencing more of it (which is reflected in my collection of pictures/films).
There is something extremely arousing in completely submitting to someone else for sexual pleasure, especially if you're completely bound/restraint and can't really do anything about it.
There are plenty of people out there that like a bit of it to spice things up, some flurry handcuffs, a bit of role-play... but that's all very vanilla. What happens when you cross that line and really give yourself up? What when you give up your own sexual pleasure (which your master my still provide) but you make your own depend on someone else's, becoming an instrument for someone else's enjoyment and completely giving up yours.
I don't really know what attracts me to all of this and how far I would go during a proper session, but I'm certain of one thing , I wouldn't mind testing my boundaries!
There are a couple of blogs out there that I like to visit:
And some other related links:- Wikipedia definitions: BDSM, Bondage.
- SM-2001 Wiki
- Films: Tom "Ropes" McGurk (see pics above)
- Master Stigma (great free gallery)
Friday, 9 February 2007
Blog: Stefano
So I thought I could start sharing with you some of the blogs I've been looking at.
The first one is the blog of Stefano (or Jakub Stefano, not sure what's the name and the surname). This beauty from the Czech Republic was at some point a Bel Ami model under the name of Dominque Bouquet.
His blog is mainly a daily update on what he's done and replies to comments from people sending him comments. He also posts pictures of himself, which is also a great bonus as you can see from the samples here.
He seems to be a very kind and gentle person, very human and down to earth. It really is quite refreshing . You can even chat with him through Flirt4free.
The first one is the blog of Stefano (or Jakub Stefano, not sure what's the name and the surname). This beauty from the Czech Republic was at some point a Bel Ami model under the name of Dominque Bouquet.
His blog is mainly a daily update on what he's done and replies to comments from people sending him comments. He also posts pictures of himself, which is also a great bonus as you can see from the samples here.
He seems to be a very kind and gentle person, very human and down to earth. It really is quite refreshing . You can even chat with him through Flirt4free.
Tuesday, 6 February 2007
Shortbus
After a while hesitating I watched Shortbus (2006) the other day. I really didn't have great expectations, my worry was that it would be a sort of bad film trying to make the most out of the publicity associated with having real sex in the film.
So out of curiosity and not having read anything particularly bad about I decided to watch it, partly, I must confess, because I was curious about the S&M scenes that were in the film.
The thing is that I quite liked it. It tells the story of a number of different people/couples completely unconnected except for a club called Shortbus where besides all the hot stuff going on derives its force from the sexual freedom that all the regulars seems to enjoy and the normality with which everyone takes everything from everyone else - something you can really feel while watching the film. The idea is probably a sort of 60's community brought up to date to the post 9/11 era.
Real sex scenes was a fairly innovative concept in non-port releases until recently but has now been used in a number of films recently and is starting to lose it's spark. The scenes are not gratuitous, they are an integral part to the story and they just make it feel more real. The way it's used in Shortbus just seems to work, it's not porn with close-ups and all but you do get to see everything... I just thought it works well.
There isn't as such much story, it's one of those films whose point seems to be the atmosphere and the feeling they try to portray. I definitely liked it but I can see why a lot of people wouldn't.
As for the S&M, well, not a lot really, not anything that will satisfy anyone who's actually into it.
Have you watched it? What did you think?
So out of curiosity and not having read anything particularly bad about I decided to watch it, partly, I must confess, because I was curious about the S&M scenes that were in the film.
The thing is that I quite liked it. It tells the story of a number of different people/couples completely unconnected except for a club called Shortbus where besides all the hot stuff going on derives its force from the sexual freedom that all the regulars seems to enjoy and the normality with which everyone takes everything from everyone else - something you can really feel while watching the film. The idea is probably a sort of 60's community brought up to date to the post 9/11 era.
Real sex scenes was a fairly innovative concept in non-port releases until recently but has now been used in a number of films recently and is starting to lose it's spark. The scenes are not gratuitous, they are an integral part to the story and they just make it feel more real. The way it's used in Shortbus just seems to work, it's not porn with close-ups and all but you do get to see everything... I just thought it works well.
There isn't as such much story, it's one of those films whose point seems to be the atmosphere and the feeling they try to portray. I definitely liked it but I can see why a lot of people wouldn't.
As for the S&M, well, not a lot really, not anything that will satisfy anyone who's actually into it.
Have you watched it? What did you think?
Sunday, 4 February 2007
Gym sex
I was out with a friend I know from work today and we were chatting in Bar Italia about what we did yesterday. So he told me that he went to the gym the day before and (revelation) how gay it was. I was quite surprised since I am a member of the gym too(!) since it's just in the business park I work but apparently it's 100% different between the normal day hours and late evenings and weekends!
Apparently there is quite some action in the showers, steam room, sauna and jacuzzi (more surprising when these are not men-only).
I had heard a lot about gay cruising in gyms but I have been going to this one for over a year and never seen anything! So I was quite surprised to know it's so different outside the normal office hours. At least he promised it's really different outside that time, it's not me not noticing anything going around... He's excuse is that he just leaves beside it - well that's what he'll tell everyone :-D
I may look at it quite differently when I go back on Monday for my workout session...
Apparently there is quite some action in the showers, steam room, sauna and jacuzzi (more surprising when these are not men-only).
I had heard a lot about gay cruising in gyms but I have been going to this one for over a year and never seen anything! So I was quite surprised to know it's so different outside the normal office hours. At least he promised it's really different outside that time, it's not me not noticing anything going around... He's excuse is that he just leaves beside it - well that's what he'll tell everyone :-D
I may look at it quite differently when I go back on Monday for my workout session...
Harry Potter has grown up (about time)
Well, it seems that getting Daniel Radcliffe "naked" is the topic of the moment with his pictures appearing everywhere.
This is definitely a PR success, not only the tickets are selling like there is no end but he's got rid of his Harry Potter boyish image in one blow. So he can now get on and do something else... all very welcome.
Still, I'm not sure I'll be seeing this play.
Tuesday, 30 January 2007
Abercrombie coming to London
I'm so looking forward to the opening of an Abercrombie & Fitch store at London, it's not the same to buy the stuff on eBay! They told me today the store is opening Spring 2007 so I'm just counting the days!
The store will apparently be in Burlington Gardens, just off Regent Street. You can see some pictures of the store on Flickr.
The store will apparently be in Burlington Gardens, just off Regent Street. You can see some pictures of the store on Flickr.
Not that you can really see clothes in the picture...
Monday, 29 January 2007
Abercrombie coming to London
I'm so looking forward to the opening of an Abercrombie & Fitch store at London, it's not the same to buy the stuff on eBay! They told me today the store is opening Spring 2007 so I'm just counting the days!
The store will apparently be in Burlington Gardens, just off Regent Street. You can see some pictures of the store on Flickr.
The store will apparently be in Burlington Gardens, just off Regent Street. You can see some pictures of the store on Flickr.
Not that you can really see clothes in the picture...
ES Collection
I've just found a new brand of underwear and swimwear I really like. They're called ES Collection and are from Barcelona. Have a look at their website, it's well worth it! http://www.swimwear.es
Their line of swimwear is quite interesting, it includes reversible swimming trunks like this:
Or swimming trunks that will leave a a "tattoo" on your skin using some tan-thru technology:
An example of their line of underwear:
Happy shopping!
Their line of swimwear is quite interesting, it includes reversible swimming trunks like this:
Or swimming trunks that will leave a a "tattoo" on your skin using some tan-thru technology:
An example of their line of underwear:
Happy shopping!
Sunday, 28 January 2007
Reversible swimming trunks
I've just found a new brand of underwear and swimwear I really like. They're called ES Collection and are from Barcelona. Have a look at their website, it's well worth it! http://www.swimwear.es
Their line of swimwear is quite interesting, it includes reversible swimming trunks like this:
Or swimming trunks that will leave a a "tattoo" on your skin using some tan-thru technology:
An example of their line of underwear:
You can buy their products online at http://www.swimwear.es/men_shops/
Happy shopping!
Their line of swimwear is quite interesting, it includes reversible swimming trunks like this:
Or swimming trunks that will leave a a "tattoo" on your skin using some tan-thru technology:
An example of their line of underwear:
You can buy their products online at http://www.swimwear.es/men_shops/
Happy shopping!
Friday, 26 January 2007
Underwear
If there is one piece of clothing that I can't have enough is that's underwear. I guess I have a bit of a fetish but I find myself looking for new brands all the time, it's probably the largest section in my bookmarks!
Unfortunately it seems so difficult to find good underwear in your average shop. With some rare exceptions I end up buying it online all the time, which means I can't really "see" it before I buy it or check whether the size will really be me (one problem of being between S and M)
So inspired by onderwer.com I've decided that I may as well share some of my findings with you so I'll be posting some websites I find and that I hope you'll enjoy!
So if you have any favourites, let me know, I'll love to hear about it.
In the meantime, if you want to see more underwear check onderwer out:
Unfortunately it seems so difficult to find good underwear in your average shop. With some rare exceptions I end up buying it online all the time, which means I can't really "see" it before I buy it or check whether the size will really be me (one problem of being between S and M)
So inspired by onderwer.com I've decided that I may as well share some of my findings with you so I'll be posting some websites I find and that I hope you'll enjoy!
So if you have any favourites, let me know, I'll love to hear about it.
In the meantime, if you want to see more underwear check onderwer out:
Wednesday, 24 January 2007
Flickr
At the moment I've been using Flickr quite a bit, I didn't really realise it had the community it has. Since I love photography it's so far being very interesting. I even got asked by a photographer to pose for him on a fine art fitness physique photo shoot. I am not sure I want to do it, one part of me says YES, another one keeps my privacy paranoia alive worrying on where the pictures could appear some time. We'll see what I decide...
One thing is sure, being asked has been the most self-confidence boosting that anyone has said for a while.
One thing is sure, being asked has been the most self-confidence boosting that anyone has said for a while.
Tuesday, 23 January 2007
Internet
Well, now that I am single I've decided to start doing a number of things I hadn't really spent much time on.
I'll be posting more often on this blog and I'm looking at creating accounts in a number of sites like gaydar or gaywatch. I don't know how that will go, I'll keep anonymous on a number of them so I can write freely.
I'll be posting more often on this blog and I'm looking at creating accounts in a number of sites like gaydar or gaywatch. I don't know how that will go, I'll keep anonymous on a number of them so I can write freely.
Sunday, 14 January 2007
The end, the beginning
Oh well, it seems it's over. My boyfriend and I have now split up on our way to 10 years of relationship.
It was a big blow, not that it was completely unexpected, but it was still a big blow. The thing is that after so many years you don't think that things are going to end and you get used to your live in common. But one day you realise that it all has changed and every little thing reminds you that the relationship is over and that things are about to change enormously.
One part of me is very sad, another sees this as an opportunity, a way of doing all those things I hadn't been doing. It also opens a lot of uncertainties for me, I need to find a new place to live, find a new live outside our relationship, and hopefully, one day, find someone else...
Wish me luck...
It was a big blow, not that it was completely unexpected, but it was still a big blow. The thing is that after so many years you don't think that things are going to end and you get used to your live in common. But one day you realise that it all has changed and every little thing reminds you that the relationship is over and that things are about to change enormously.
One part of me is very sad, another sees this as an opportunity, a way of doing all those things I hadn't been doing. It also opens a lot of uncertainties for me, I need to find a new place to live, find a new live outside our relationship, and hopefully, one day, find someone else...
Wish me luck...
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